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Some Acts of Courage Don’t Look Brave At All

They don’t arrive with capes, speeches, or applause.
Instead, they show up quietly—like someone who walks through the door, when they’d rather hide.
They sound like, “I need help.”
They feel like trying again, even though yesterday was hard.

At Centers for Opportunity, we witness courage every day. More often than not, it’s the kind that goes unnoticed—but never unimportant.


The Smallest Step Can Be the Boldest Move

Courage looks different for everyone.
For some, it’s walking into a center after feeling judged elsewhere.
For others, it’s sharing in a group, even when their voice shakes.
It might mean applying for a job after several rejections.
Or simply logging into one more virtual group—camera off, heart still open.

In every case, bravery doesn’t have to be loud. It just has to be willing.


Stories of Quiet Bravery

Rebecca, a Program Coordinator at CFO Merrifield, found a note taped to the center’s door one morning. It read, “Kindness Starts Here.”
No one claimed it. But in the days that followed, more notes appeared. Even a poem.

That’s bravery too—the courage to create beauty anonymously.

At CFO South County, a participant named C.D. made quiet use of every support offered: laundry, a shower, a SmarTrip card. One step at a time, she kept going.
And one day, she shared: “I just got a job at the Saudi Embassy.”

No spotlight. No stage. Just steady steps—and care that made it possible.


A Gentle Practice

This week, think of something that required emotional energy.
Did you set a boundary? Ask for help? Get out of bed and make it to the center?

That, too, is courage.

And if someone around you showed up in their own way—see them. Even silently. Let’s grow a world where we honor effort, not just outcomes.


Next in the Series:

Bridges, Not Barriers – exploring how diversity, intersectionality, and shared humanity can build connection instead of division.

CFO’s virtual support programs and employment services help people across Northern Virginia stay connected, supported, and encouraged.